Familiar with Oprah Winfrey? If you do not know (yes acquaintances, dong), then start now perbanyaklah find out about the figure of the black woman. His features were so generous, kind, makes it even more famous. He is a humble figure behind all assets held. In fact, Oprah often provide outstanding motivations so that others are able to become successful like him.

Well, for our young people. Successful Tips from Oprah highly obliged you know, because there is no harm in it to learn from the success of others?

1. Focus on where you are, not where others

"Be grateful for everything you have, and you'll have some more. If you concentrate on what you do not have, you will never have enough. "

Here Oprah wanted to say that we should focus on what is in us, the talent, ability, and whatever we have, as well as in our dreams. If we are able to focus on the main things, then the system SAR or the reticular activating system in the human mind will help find evidence (in this case the evidence of thought indicated by the search for solutions).

Now, with grateful we are more focused on what is inside of us and it just makes us appreciate ourselves or others.

So from now on, try to focus on yourself and your dreams!

2. Understand the nature of the failure and the failure to realize that actually want to be nice to you

"I do not believe in failure. Not a failure if you enjoy the process. "

"Do one thing that you think you can not do. If you fail, try again. Do better in the second experiment. People who have never fallen are those who never take risks. It is time. Take this opportunity and do! "

"I believe one of the biggest risk in life is not the courage to take risks."

From this moment never afraid to fail! Enjoy aja process, as each process it must be a new lesson that you get. And the lesson so that's what your biggest capital to achieve success.

3. Fear is there because you let

"Whatever you fear actually has no power over you - fear that control of yourself."

For this case we suppose there was a girl afraid of cockroaches. He was at boarding alone and there was a big cockroach appeared beside him. Would not want him should kill a cockroach that even though he was afraid, lha wong is in his rented again there is not anybody (the story friend's apartment on pulkam).

Well, from the parable that we can know that fear is there because we were thinking about it. So, if we want to kill the fear was so in only one way, namely to fight it. With what? Broom? Sword? Not! Fight your fear that by doing things that you fear. For example, you are afraid of heights. Try playing the flying fox. You're afraid of cockroaches, try to play with a cockroach. Beres, right?

4. Do your right thing, even if nobody else sees

"The essence of integrity is doing the right thing, regardless of whether others know you do it or not."

Make a rule for yourself. Do not wait for orders and rules of others. Why? Because humans tend to shy at the person who made the order. If we make a rule for yourself, then we respect ourselves. Because of the good things that should be done to yourself first, then to others.

5. You will reap what you plant

"One thing I believe is what you give will come back to yourself."

Well, here the laws of nature apply. If you cultivate banana, banana sure that you harvest. Not mango. If you do good, you definitely yes dapetnya also good.

You know, no? If you do not understand tanyain to the author personally aja, deh. Instead of a long affair.

6. Forget the past! Because you live in the present, not your past that

"Take a breath, release, and remind yourself that now is the time you have for sure."

Why recall the past? If the past it was only contain negative things? Here Oprah wanted to say that we should forget the past are negative. Which only makes the spirit of our lives down. For example, ex. Why should you try to remember that the former will only put you back on the pain? What point, right? Mending focus on your future. On a girl or a boy who might now pending. Focus for picking her up. Focus to pick your dream!

7. God is the screenwriter. You are a holder of control

"Each of us is responsible for our own lives - not anyone else."

God that created man and wrote his destiny. But, we can change destiny by trying. Because actually we have no control. We are the driver. We are holding the steering wheel. So, do not be afraid! Because this is your life and you are most familiar with what you want, not someone else.

How? Already started to understand the perspective of success of Oprah? Or maybe even more confused? (Kan was already spelled out, if still confused nanya directly to the author). Oh yes, in addition to the seven tips that. Oprah advised to read one book called "The New World" ( "New World") written by Eckhart Tolle. You can get this book in bookstores (not a pharmacy or hardware store, gaes). If no, you can purchase through online. This is not a promotion tablets, yes. Just wanna love you guys know that weve wrote for his life again upset and want to live a happy life physically and mentally.


Taken from Hipwee By Mitha Tiara